FRIENDSHIP!

Dear Journal,
Before I get into and started I would love to thank my two sisters for the love and support that they gave day in and day out. --> > > > @MSZROCKSTAR and @THEREALJOELLE! If there was a twitter dictionary and the word TWITRIEND = Twitter+Friend needed a picture example of what the definition is, these two ladies would be the perfect canadiates. These ladies were the first that I made friends with on twitter and they truely show love in every way. These ladies are also the first to support my blog and so because of their true support and encouragement, I dedicate this entry to them. I LOVE YOU GALS. Like Big Sister Joelle says: There is no hood like sisterhood!.
You can follow these ladies on www.Twitter.com/MszRockStar and www.Twitter.com/TheRealJoelle

-----------FRIENDSHIP------------

1. A QUALITY OR CONDITION OF BEING FRIENDLY
2. A FRIENDLY RELATIONSHIP 3. FRIENDLINESS; GOOD WILL

I have made many so called friends in my lifetime.Many were aquired from neighborhoods I grew up in, school I attended, through mutal friend and so on, even have made friends through internet networking. Some, I am still friends with, some I no longer assocate myself with. Some skinny, some fat, some supportive, some just plain whack. But this entry is not about the amount of friends that a person can have but the quality that the ones that are still here have that makes them "FRIENDS". Through out our lives we meet people, get to know them and decide whether we will call this person friend or foe, even just allowing them to just know us but it is the ones we call friends that matter. What is it in these people that meet our standards that we are confortable enough to give them the title "FRIEND"? A title so powerful that it has the ability to effect and alter our lives. I have seen people take their friends word over family, go above and beyound for a friend and give valuable time to the ones they call friends. Just because they feel and know that these people or person is truely their friend.How wonderful this world is to better live in with the right people surrounding you that love and accept you for who you are. Rain, sleet or snow these are the individuals that hold your hand when you need confort, they are there to blanket your pain with love and carry you when you are to tired to go on. Sometimes they are the ones who care enough when your family falls short.

Freinds, true friends, are the ones who know the who, what , when ,and how about "YOU". They never need reassurance of your commintment to them because they already know. They know that your commitment to them is there just like they are there. The friendship between the you and them is seen as one friendship, your lives have become conjoined. Click, watch and listen -->>


The reason i chose this video to make my point about friendship and the the ones we call friends is because in the movie "Waiting To Exhale" these ladies all went through different issues in their lives but throughout each issue they could always find their friends with open arms and a caring heart. That to me is true friendship....

Now somewhere along living in these new times the laws of friendship have been forgotten. Some people out in this world (and its alot of them) are only friends to people so they can gain something, whether it be materialistic objects, fame, fortune, to get to a crtain levl of acknowledgement, or just so they can have a closer look on how to bring you down. These people are the ones we give the name "HATERS". They are the ones out here that claim to be there for you but all the while they are tearing you apart behind your back. They do this because they are upset....mad cause they see that you have put forth all your effort and applied yourself to making dreams come true. theybsee tat the dream they once had is now becoming your reality. They dont want to put in the same hours you did but they want to live the life you lead. The "FAKERS", "PRENTENDERS" AND "CRABS IN A BUCKET", They are the ones we give those names to.
Unfoutantely they are also the ones that we dont see until they prove their true colors.But when we do see eho they really are we must distant ourselves from themwhile still allowing them to be in range so we can keep a watchful eye on their every move so we can intercept their plans to bring us down to their level.Click, watch and listen-->>



I do not know a better way to had put those words, It is all truth. The people you call friends can be your inside enemy! Infiltrating into your circle to plant a bomb and make a run for it. These people we have to stop at the door. They can not be called friends, but we must love them still. They are the one that help us to compare and see who our tue friends are.
This is my thoughts and emotions on what friends are, I would love to hear from you and what your thoughts of friendship is foundated on. Please leave comment.

THE BEGINNING!

DEAR JOURNAL,
HOW EXCITED I AM TO BE POSTING A BLOG FOR THE VERY FIRST TIME IN MY INTERNET LIFE. I HAVE ALWAYS READ OTHER BLOGS, POSTED MY COMMENTS AND DISCUSSED WITH THE OUTSIDE WORLD OF ALL THE NEW THINGS I HAVE READ FROM PEOPLES BLOGS THAT TRAVELS THEIR MINDS. BUT NEVER HAVE I BEEN ENCOURAGED TILL NOW TO START MY OWN BLOG! THE MOTIVATION BEHIND THE WANTING TO SHARE MY THOUGHTS AND VIEWS, COMES FROM BEING AROUND A DIFFERENT CERTAIN GROUP OF PEOPLE. AT THIS POINT OF MY LIFE, IT'S AMAZING TO ME TO SEE THAT, WHAT MY MOM USE TO SAY TO ME WHEN I WAS A KID, IS ABSOLUTELY 100% TRUE. ALL I DID WAS CHALLENGE HER WORDS! WANTING TO PROVE THAT I KNEW IT ALL WHEN SHE KNEW MORE. SHE WOULD SAY TO ME "MIND THE COMPANY YOU KEEP BECAUSE YOU GROW UP DOING WHAT THEY DO." THIS IS A LESSON THAT I HAVE LEARNED VERY WELL. HANGING WITH THE CROWD THAT I DID WHEN I FIRST JUMPED OFF THE PORCH (STARTING TO COME OUT), WASN'T THE BEST GROUP TO HAVE RAN WITH. WE DID MANY OF STUPID THINGS AND GOT INTO A LOT OF TROUBLE! BUT ONE THING POSITIVE THAT CAME OUT OUT OF MY REBELOUS DAYS, IS THAT IT LEAD ME TO WHERE I AM NOW, KNOWING THE INFORMATION THAT I CARRY IN MY CEREBELLUM (BACK BRAIN). I THANK MY HIGHER POWER FOR ALLOWING ME TO KNOW THESE THINGS, TO BE A STRONGER PERSON THEN I WAS YESTERDAY AND AND CONTINUE TO BECOME A STRONGER PERSON TOMORROW.

NOW, I REALLY DIDN'T KNOW WHAT TO BASE MY BLOG ON. I HAD MANY CONCEPTS RUN THROUGH MY MIND AND ULTIMATELY DECIDED THAT I WANTED TO SHARE EVERYTHING WITH YOU. THAT'S WHERE THE TITLE "OPEN JOURNAL" CAME TO MIND. I HAVE SO MANY DIFFERENT INTEREST AND THOUGHTS, THAT I CANT STICK WITH JUST ONE PORTION!! I WANT YOU TO KNOW EVERYTHING THAT THERE IS TO KNOW AND WOULD LOVE FOR YOU TO SHARE YOUR THOUGHTS OR EXPERIENCES WITH ME AS WELL. I WILL BE POSTING MY OPINIONS, FACTS, EMOTIONS, AND LOGIC'S ON TOPICS ABOUT MUZIK, WORLD NEWS, COMMUNITY NEWS, GOSSIP, LIFE EXPERIENCES, AND ETC. AND DON'T FORGET I WANT YOUR FEED BACK. I WANT TO KNOW WHAT YOU THINK OR FEEL ABOUT THESE TOPICS. THE FOUNDATION OF THIS JOURNAL IS TO SHARE AND LEARN AND TO LEARN AND SHARE WHAT AND HOW PEOPLE DEAL WITH EVERYDAY FUNCTIONS OF LIFE! YOU THE READER, WILL BE THE JOURNAL, WITH THE ABILITY TO INTERACT WITH ME, THE WRITER. INDIVIDUALS NEVER GET A CHANCE TO HAVE A JOURNAL THAT RESPONDS TO ISSUES AND THOUGHTS THAT THE WRITER HAS, LEAVING FOR THE WRITER TO MAKE THEIR OWN REFLECTIONS ON HOW TO DEAL WITH THE ISSUES.


I HOPE YOU FIND YOUR VISIT HERE INTERESTING AND HUMBLE ENOUGH TO COME BACK COMMENT IN MY OPEN JOURNAL..... THANK YOU.